10/29- 4:44 Dealmaker's Digest Newsletter

Is that how you talk to yourself?

Be real for a second—how often do you catch yourself thinking, “I’m not good enough,” or “I’ll never pull this off”? That negative self-talk? It’s a killer for success, more damaging than you might realize.

Every time you call yourself a “loser” or question your abilities, you’re building a mental wall that blocks real progress. And here’s the kicker—no strategy, hustle, or grind can make up for a mindset that’s holding you back.

I just posted something on flipping that script. Check it out here to see how to stop the self-sabotage and start showing up like a winner. 🌱💪

4 Thoughts to Kickstart Your Day:

1. Self-Talk Shapes Reality: The words you tell yourself aren’t just thoughts—they become beliefs. Talk to yourself like you’re already winning, and soon enough, you will be.

2. Negativity Becomes a Habit: Every negative word you say to yourself digs that rut a little deeper. Flip the script; start seeing setbacks as opportunities instead of failures.

3. Surround Yourself with Positivity: Get around people who see the greatness in you. Their belief will start to rub off, pushing you forward when your mind tries to hold you back.

4. Celebrate Small Wins: Focus on what you’ve achieved, not what’s missing. Each win, no matter how small, builds momentum and shifts your mindset from “I can’t” to “I can.”

4 Lessons Learned:

1. Mindset Controls Outcomes: Success isn’t only about effort—it’s about the attitude you bring. Shift the way you think, and you’ll shift what’s possible.

2. Be Your Own Advocate: Instead of tearing yourself down, be your own loudest cheerleader. No one else will do it for you, so start talking to yourself with respect and encouragement.

3. Words Carry Power: What you say to yourself in tough moments matters. Reinforce confidence with positive language—even if it feels cheesy. It works.

4. Self-Sabotage is Real: Negative self-talk has one goal: to hold you back. Recognize it, challenge it, and replace it with words that drive you forward.

4 Challenges to Conquer Today:

1. Catch Your Negative Self-Talk: Notice the words you say to yourself today. Every time you catch a negative thought, flip it into something positive.

2. Write Down Affirmations: Take five minutes to jot down statements that make you feel strong. Post them where you’ll see them every day.

3. Give Yourself Credit: List three things you’ve done well recently, no matter how small. This practice will remind you of your wins and shift your mindset.

4. Connect with a Positive Influence: Find someone who inspires you. Spend some time with them, and let their positive energy lift you up.

Quote of the Day

"Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right."

- Henry Ford

Flip your self-talk, build a stronger mind, and make that success happen.

Until Tomorrow,

Mark Evans DM

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