01/23/25 - Wakie Wakie 4:44

Welcome to your 444 Newsletter—Your weekly dose of clarity, strategy, and action is here. Today, we’re flipping the script on how you define success.

Here’s the truth: Success isn’t always about chasing dreams; sometimes, it’s about dodging nightmares. 🚩

Let me ask you this: Have you ever stopped to think about what you don’t want in life or business? Because until you define your non-negotiables, you’ll keep chasing things that might not even align with what truly matters to you.

👉 Dive deeper into this idea and gain clarity on your path to success. Read the blog here.

4 Thoughts to Reflect On

1. Clarity Isn’t What You Want—It’s What You Refuse to Tolerate
   When you’re clear about what you won’t accept, your decisions become easier. Clarity doesn’t start with what you want; it starts with identifying what you don’t.

2. Success Leaves Breadcrumbs
   The most successful people know their boundaries. They don’t just say yes to every opportunity—they say no to what doesn’t align.

3. The ‘No’ List Matters More Than the ‘Yes’ List
   Focusing on what you’re willing to walk away from is just as important as knowing what you’re chasing.

4. Your Biggest Wins Come From Focus
   Success isn’t about doing everything; it’s about doing the right things—and that requires cutting out the distractions.

👉 Want a proven framework to identify your non-negotiables? Check out the full blog here.

4 Lessons I’ve Learned

1. Saying No Makes Room for Your Yes
   Every time you say no to something, you’re making space for what truly matters.

2. Your Clarity Is Someone Else’s Chaos
   People will push their agendas on you. Stand firm in what you’ve decided not to tolerate.

3. Boundaries Breed Freedom
   It might feel counterintuitive, but boundaries create space for growth and focus.

4. You’re the Architect of Your Life
   The life you’re building will reflect the standards you set. If you don’t like where it’s headed, redefine your boundaries today.

4 Challenges to Tackle Today

1. Write Your No-Go List
   List three things you refuse to tolerate in your business or life.

2. Audit Your Calendar
   Identify activities or commitments that don’t align with your goals. Eliminate them.

3. Have One Tough Conversation
   Address a situation or relationship where boundaries need to be clarified.

4. Focus on One Key Priority
   Decide what matters most this week and block time for it—everything else can wait.

“Success is not the result of making the right choices; it’s the result of refusing the wrong ones.”

- Warren Buffett

Final Thought

The life you want isn’t built on endless yeses—it’s shaped by the boundaries you set. If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or off track, it’s time to ask yourself the hard question:

What are you tolerating that’s holding you back?

👉 Ready to take control? Start here.

Here’s to building a life and business you love—not just tolerate.
Mark Evans DM

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